ok hey fellow readers. Well recently i am having this social problem, but i do not blame it, it really makes me reflect a lot on myself and in those times of lineliness i realised a lot of things, and learnt a lot.
People, i think it is no bullshit for camps to get you to have reflections every night, on whatever you did in the day. Reflections have its benefits, and adults do not just have reflections every night to make the schedule looks packed. People, take sometime out, i am not asking for some hours of reflection, just a mere 10 minutes off each day, to just pause what you are doing and what have you done in the day. Just pause, and reflect. It will do you good in the growing of your body, soul and mind.
Many things i have learnt recently, like
Being mature is not pointing your finger at another person and saying hes childish.
No. That is just plain not the way to make you more mature than others. I swear never in my life i would use the word "childish" on other people, if i do so, you can point your finger right out at me and tell me im childish and because in my blog i said so, and you should be expecting an apology from me. I am not joking. No adolescents are childish, and even if so may i ask how would you define childishness? People have their reasons, their reasons to behave in that way, like what i previously said, "every action triggers a reaction", so stop pointing your finger at them and say such things. That leads me to my second point,
Humans are all unique and diffrent from each other.
So, before you blame them for doing so, you should really do as i said, just take sometime out, try to figure out why did he react in that way, and what have you done to make him so mad or pissed or dissapointed. Make up for it if it is your fault. Even if it is not your fault, sometimes you have to ust take the first step. Yes some of you may point me out that i am not taking my first step, but in God's name i swear, if such things happened, means i have already taken way too many first-steps to resolve things with you, and you are just sitting there being ignorant about what you have done. That is not the way.
Sometimes we may make mistakes to react in such a bad way to another, but, after your reflections, learn from it, make up for it. I know, that i am very very very hot tempered, and i am such an asshole to always react so fast. Yes people i am sorry. However, as i said, sometimes it is just too much, i can no longer take first-steps, and i have my own dignity to uphold and i am not going to apologize, really, so if you i am an asshole, and not aplogizing, you are obviously not doing your daily reflections. Understand other people, be sensitive. Dont just say things, think before you does. Dont insult before, because you are in no position to do so, you can tease, but do be sensitive to others, and dont over do it.
If i might add a word, yes i AM OVERSENSITIVE, i admit that. However, the some of you, are just plain INSENSITIVE towards others. I know this sort of opnions are sometimes very one-sided, but people, but, it is something i find no wrongness in it. Care for people's feeling. I may be a freethinker, but my heart still listen to God and Jesus Christ, and i truly believe that what they want, is only to have this world, a better world ; to have people, living in harmony.
People commit sins ( why in the holy god's name i am so holy now? ), and trust me, even if that person will not forgive you for that, theres still always someone there to forgive you. Be it Christianity, Buddism ( sry if i make a spelling mistake) or Hinduism, all religion exists to make this world - a better world. So its ok to make mistakes, but grow up from it people. I can tell you right now, i am NO WHERE NEAR mature, but i am sure of one thing - i am growing each day by day.
Few erm, mottos i would like to share with you guys.
- Being mature if not pointing your finger at another person and making him childish
- Humans are unique and diffrent from each other
- One more thing, one less thing
- Play hard, study hard ( someone said something even more more more meaningful, and i will remember it, she said "play hard, study hard ; study now, play in December" )
- Every action triggers an reaction
So all the best in life!
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